You’re not ugly -the society is

I will always try to help you, I promise!

I’ve seen so many people struggling with self-harm and depression here, on tumblr that I just decided to create this page. I hope it will help you or at least make you think of what you’ve just read.

I drew the picture above a few weeks ago (I know it’s not a masterpiece :) but it has a really deep meaning.) It is a symbol of a friendship, support, help, love, care, sympathy…And the main aim of this page is to help you, whoever you are. ‘Nothing is worth hurting yourself over, nothing is worth taking your life over do you understand?’ -Gerard Way

Well, I’ll start with myself. I also have hard times fighting all the thoughts of being alone and useless in this world and I think everybody does. Feeling sad or having the blues is not a bad thing at all. Sometimes there are dark days we just have to live through in order to look forward to those good, happy ones. And believe me, everyone deserves to be happy. ‘Sometimes you have to kind of die inside in order to rise from your own ashes and believe in yourself and love yourself to become a new person.’ ― Gerard Way

I also noticed a lot of you describe themselves as social outcasts. Well, I’m one of them too, especially here in my town. I can literally feel or hear people’s thoughts judging me over my look, appearance, image…And you know what? I just don’t give a single fuck about what they think. If they don’t like me, they should not look, that’s all. I always say: Turn your fucking head around and let me be. I’ll use this quote (I’m sure you know it):‘Be yourself, don’t take anyone’s shit, and never let them take you alive!‘ – Gerard Way. And that is exactly how I live. Never ever change yourself cause you’re told to, do not live how anybody else wants you to! Just don’t listen to those losers who want to see you down, on your knees. Never let them watch you fall. Just smile to their insidious faces, I’m sure they won’t like it. They’ve been trying to push you down to the bottom and you’re smiling? Hah, they’ll choke with anger.

Unfortunately, today’s world is a really ugly place and the strongest sons of bitches survive. That’s how it goes. The society only accepts perfect, wealthy and fake people, the others are loners, nerds, weirdos. If you’re overweight, people treat you as if you had some kind of disease or what. Who the fuck said that you’re beautiful only if you’re slim? Just don’t listen to them. Maybe your smile would not be so sweet if you lost some weight, maybe your face or body would lose that strange spark which makes you wonderful. And remember, true beauty comes from within. ‘Hey, girls, you’re beautiful. Don’t look at those stupid magazines with sticklike models. Eat healthy and exercise. That’s all. Don’t let anyone tell you you’re not good enough. You’re good enough, you are too good. Love your family with all your heart and listen to it. You are gorgeous, whether you’re a size 4 or 14. It doesn’t matter what you look like on the outside, as long as you’re a good person, as long as you respect others. I know it’s been told hundreds of times before, but it’s true. Hey, girls, you are beautiful.‘― Gerard Way If you’re a little bit different from the others, you get alone, left behind just because you don’t fit in. ‘I’m not afraid to keep on living. I’m not afraid to walk this world alone. Honey if you stay, I’ll be forgiven. Nothing you can say can stop me going home.’ (Famous last words) And you are special, unique and irreplaceable, you just need to believe. Please, if you feel you’ve hit the bottom and you’re too weak to get up on your own, scream for help. Never let the demons control your mind. Don’t hurt yourself, you know it never makes the problems go away. It is not a right solution! Be strong and keep the faith. Your life is too precious to be destroyed. If you believe in God, you have to believe that you are here for a reason. He sent you here because there’s something you have to live for. There’s something or someone worth living for. Never ever lose your faith, belief and hope. Prove everyone that they’re wrong, you’re a fighter and you will make it. You just have to find your happiness. ART IS THE WEAPON. Whenever you feel like giving up, listen to your favorite music, draw, sing, and dance, shut the world outside. If you’re a MCR fan, let the band help you, their music will do all the healing process on its own. Just listen. Trust me, it always works. Remember that they want you to live on, they encourage you to carry on. ‘One day your life will flash before your eyes. Make sure it’s worth watching.‘ –Gerard Way 

Hold your head high and watch your enemies die. If there’s anything you need to tell me or if you need to share your burden with me, I’m always here for you and I mean this seriously. Send me a message here, anonymous or not (I’ll answer non-anonymous questions privately) and just repeat to yourself:

‘Never forget how beautiful you are.‘ ― Gerard Way

‘No matter how desperate you get, no matter how upset, how depressed… You never, ever use violence as a solution.’ - Gerard Way.

‘Suicide is a serious thing. And if you know anyone who is suicidal, you need to get them help. No one should be in pain. Everyone should love themselves. Like I love you all.‘ ― Gerard Way